Advent: A Time for Calm and Humble Trust in God

 


The liturgical season of Advent and its true meaning seems to get more and more obscured in the busy, secular world we live in. Coinciding with the Black Friday/Cyber Monday chaos of shopping, and the intensity of family obligations, travel, Christmas parties, more shopping, events, and other things leading up to Christmas, we often forget the real purpose of Advent. 

Advent is the season of expectation (CCC 523) and of great hope in the Lord, in ensuring we are prepared for His coming—certainly the feast of His birth, but also the preparation of the Second Coming. In a real sense too, it’s about our own end, when we will eventually meet Him in Heaven. It’s quite a juxtaposition that is often forgotten. Prepare the way of the Lord (Matthew 3:3) in some ways means: “be ready for the final judgment”—a stark lens to look through when preoccupied with wreaths, ribbons, and wrapping paper.

Psalm 131 is a great way to approach Advent. This Psalm, one of the shortest, calls upon us to trust in God’s love and care—to put aside the troubles and burdens of daily life, and put our hope in Him. It is a song of ascents, a beautiful reminder that we are citizens of the Heavenly Kingdom.

If we approach this Advent with Psalm 131 on our lips, we can immerse ourselves in “the great events of Salvation history,” (CCC 1095) which enables us to surface the true meaning of this season. It will bring us calm re-assurance during these days and nights of cold and darkness; God promises us that the dawn will break eventually and we must endure with a strong faith to get there. Our hope—our expectation—is anchored in trusting in the Lord’s promise and love.

Advent, seen through Psalm 131, is a proper and healthy way to understand how we can prepare ourselves—and our world—for the coming of Jesus Christ…on Christmas Day and every day.

Lord, my heart is not proud, nor are my eyes haughty.

Pride is one of the seven deadly sins; we have all struggled mightily with it, even if we choose not to admit it. This prayer asks God that we be properly conformed to Him, in a way that puts others and their needs first, above our own. Jesus puts us first in His heart and we must do the same for others, especially the poor, sick, oppressed, marginalized, and those who are spiritually lost. We can be the light of Christ to them, especially in their darkest hours and during the darkest time of the year.

I do not busy myself with great matters, with things too sublime for me.

Busy. We are always busy. Endlessly rushing to and fro in a multitude of "important" things to do. In our post-Thanksgiving rush, we often neglect others—and our own spiritual life—because we need to always be “on the go.” But we must ask God for the grace of slowness. Slowing down can help us see those “God moments” in our everyday life, because God wants us to see them. He wants us to know that He is with us every step of the way. Advent is the time to pause, take stock, and to prepare ourselves for the Lord. The busier we are, the less we see God in our lives.

Like pride, we often exalt ourselves and our "busy, very important" tasks without putting them in the proper perspective. Advent allows us that break to gain a better perspective. Psalm 131 reminds us that God is in total control and oversees all things. Therefore, we only need to be content with being His servants, allowing the Lord to use us as the vessel to make great things happen, whether or not (most likely not) we know, see, or understand it.

Rather, I have stilled my soul.

Advent reminds us that we are linked to God like a little child. Quiet time in adoration before the Blessed Sacrament, even for a few minutes, can be a tremendous grace:

Be still my heart, for I am in the presence of the Lord. Be still.

Sitting quietly, meditating, or praying can be soothing for our soul:

Slowly, I see, accept, and if God desires, understand,
how He is active in my life and others
.

Individually, a person cannot rely on themselves to "make things happen." Only with others—and through others—can we truly be properly aligned with God. Advent is the time to bring ourselves as a community back to God, making the link between the Almighty Father and us as His Church even stronger. We are truly dependent on Him. Through our stillness, we can begin to see how God sees the beauty in others, and then utilizes those people to help guide and direct us closer to Him in a variety of ways and circumstances.

Like a weaned child to its mother, weaned is my soul.

Weaning, as a medical term, is the gradual transition from an infant drawing nourishment from its mother’s breast milk or formula, to move on to other forms of consumption, like bottles, cups, or even solid food. Our soul is inextricably linked to Him through Christ. We are weaned on to God for our spiritual nourishment. Advent helps remind us of this direct and strong bond, and helps make it even stronger.

The Hebrew word used in this Psalm for weaning is gamal, which actually has two meanings. The literal meaning is “to wean an infant,” but it also has a deeper meaning that is beautiful and appropriate: “to do good to another.” It is the second sense where the same word is used in 2 Samuel, in King David’s last great Song of Thanksgiving; “the Lord acknowledged my righteousness [and] rewarded my clean hands.” (2 Sam 22:21)

Advent is a wonderful time to thank the Lord for the gifts He has given each of us. We can use these gifts to lift up the lives of our neighbors in a way that honors God’s commandments and Jesus’s teaching: “Love thy enemy.” (Luke 6:27). If we, too, are good to God and to others, especially in the most challenging circumstances, we shall be rewarded with Heaven.

Israel, hope in the Lord, now and forever.

God is all about hope. We cannot change what has happened to us in the past, but we can use that experience and help forge ahead, coming closer to the Lord in hopeful expectation. Advent is that time; a time of hope. That's why the three Wise Men followed the star. They trusted God on a long and dangerous journey to find the Messiah—and were rewarded for their faithfulness. Patience, prayer, and purpose must guide our lives as we do our best to live out the Gospel.

We do not know what will lie ahead in our journey of faith, but as Saint Paul says, we will endure afflictions. These trials will build our endurance, since that produces character. A strong character produces hope—it belies an authentic hope, based on trusting God (Rom 5:4). Saint Paul, no stranger to enduring hardships, continues: “hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit…” (Rom 5:5).

Advent is a time of great joy for us. The birth of our Lord Jesus Christ ushered in a new chapter in the life of the world. His death and resurrection means that death is no longer. It gives us hope that He will come again soon. We can use this season of Advent to prepare for Him—and prepare ourselves. Let us continue to build our hope and trust in God, through constant reflection, a commitment to deepen our faith, and in service to others. Let us reflect and magnify the light of Christ to our brothers and sisters.

 

AN ADVENT PRAYER

Lord, may we have a servant’s disposition, and the humility to see you, for the sake of others first. We ask Jesus, our Savior, to grant us the grace so that we may open our heart and hear His voice clearly. We ask for the joy to slow down, so that we can listen for His Word and be able to act upon it. Heavenly Father, help make this Advent a time of stillness, awakening, and selfless service, so that we may come closer to God and our neighbor.
We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.



Isaiah Prophesying the Adoration of Christ, from Art in the Christian Tradition, a project of the Vanderbilt Divinity Library, Nashville, TN. https://diglib.library.vanderbilt.edu/act-imagelink.pl?RC=29209 [retrieved November 26, 2025]. Original source: image donated by Jim Womack and Anne Richardson.

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