Who is Mary, the Blessed Mother?

 


Today, January 1, is not only the start of a new year, but is also the great Solemnity of Mary, the Holy Mother of God. We give great thanks and praise for giving us a Mother so worthy, so loving, so filled with grace, that we can fly to her for our needs, confident that she will hear them and intercede on our behalf with her Son, our Lord. 

Recently, I came across a person who said that they believed Mary, the Mother of Jesus, was actually God. I commend this person for having faith in the “Theotokos,” the God-Bearer, as the Eastern Church calls her. However, it is important to understand who Mary really is and how her “Yes” is correctly viewed. Mary is not God but rather is a willing cooperator in God’s plan—for her and for all believers.

Mary in the Gospels

The Gospel of Matthew first mentions Mary in Chapter 1, Verse 16 in the genealogy: “Jacob the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary. Of her was born Jesus who is called the Messiah.” Matthew and Mark’s Gospels briefly mention Mary, since that wasn’t a focus of their writings, and both acknowledge that Mary is the mother of Jesus.

It is in the Gospel of Luke that we really “meet” Mary—in this book we come to know her as she is approached by the Angel Gabriel who appeared to her, greeted her with “Hail, favored one” and gave her the good news: if she was willing, the Son of God would be her child (Luke 1:26ff).  

The greeting in the Magnificat is worth diving into: the Greek word here is χαριτω (G5487), transliterated as “charitoō”—like charitable. Mary’s act of giving of herself is a true blessing. The Angel is saying “Mary, you are the favored one of God, the first among many.” Knowing the Psalms as she would, Mary’s mind may have thought about Psalm 18, verse 24: “the LORD has rewarded me according to my righteousness.”

Indeed, we truly understand Mary as she expresses her “YES”—the Fiat—to conform herself to God’s will: “I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word” (Luke 1:38). Here again, you wonder if she immediately thought of Psalm 18 again: “For it is you who light my lamp; the LORD my God lightens my darkness” (verse 28).

John’s Gospel is instructive as well: in the Wedding Feast at Cana, Mary tells the waiters to “do whatever He tells you” (2:5), an admonition we must all heed. For Mary knows the true power of Jesus and wants all to believe in His majesty and miracles. On the Cross, Jesus instructs John to “Behold, your mother” (19:27), and John from thereon takes care of Mary. Likewise, Jesus has given Mary to us, as a spiritual mother and avenue through which we can be joined to Christ.

The Church’s Teaching on Mary

The Acts of the Apostles also discuss Mary, but here it is important to understand how the Church tradition and doctrine views her. The Catechism of the Catholic Church provides excellent historical instruction on Mary. In 431, the Council of Ephesus reaffirmed that Jesus Christ was in fact of the same substance of God, thus fully human and fully divine (CCC 466). They also proclaimed that Mary was the Mother of God, a holy body from which emerged the Son of God. In this context, their reference to “holy body” is fully human, but not divine.

Through the power of the Holy Spirit, Mary was invited to join herself to the cause of human salvation by bearing the Son of the Father. Mary then, knowing the faith so well (she was taught marvelously by her parents, Anne and Joaquim), was free to cooperate with this Divine request to bring forth the child (CCC 487-488).

The Church teaches that what we know and believe about Mary is directly related to our faith and belief in Jesus Christ; they compliment each other (CCC 487). Thus, to know Jesus is to appreciate Mary’s role and her fiat—her YES to God. It was at that moment that God’s plan was able to be accomplished; she was indeed “full of grace.”

Sinless and Holy, but Not God

In the Eastern tradition, Mary also holds the title of Panagia, the “All-Holy.” The Church teaches that, as the vessel from which the Messiah emerges, she must be wholly without blemish. Thus, while she was preserved from sin through the grace of God, she is still a human being (CCC 492-493).

She was predestined and chosen by God for this role; He needed a woman who was willing to go through the agony of the Crucifixion and support Jesus in His ministry. While sinless (such would be required to bear the Son of God), she was still a human being—and thus enabled her son Jesus to be both human and divine. Her role is a place of preeminence, but not God. She points the way to the Trinity, not herself.

Pope Piux IX, writing the Apostolic Constitution Ineffabilis Deus in 1854, teaches us that Mary was truly special:

in preference to any other creature, he showed her so much love that he delighted in her alone with a very singular benevolence. For this reason he wonderfully filled her, more than all the angels and all the saints, with the abundance of all the celestial gifts, taken from the treasure of her divinity. Thus she, always absolutely free from every stain of sin, completely beautiful and perfect, possesses such a fullness of innocence and holiness, than which, after God, no greater can be conceived.

Various Titles of Mary

Over the millennia, Mary has many titles: Queen of Heaven, Mother of the Church, Mother of the Living, Our Lady of Mount Carmel, Our Lady of Victory, Our Lady of Hope, Our Lady of Gudalupe, and dozens more. However wonderful these are for devotion, they are merely a starting point to understanding the entire context of her role in bringing forth Jesus Christ and following him. Indeed, she is the first, best, and most devout follower of Jesus.

In early November 2025, the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith issued  “Mater Populi fidelis”, a Doctrinal Note on Some Marian Titles Regarding Mary’s Cooperation in the Work of Salvation. The Note explained that some confusion remains over several specific titles and should be treated with caution. It reinforces that Marian devotion is important and her Motherhood is truly a treasure of the Church; it further “aims to deepen the proper foundations of Marian devotion by specifying Mary’s place in her relationship with believers in light of the Mystery of Christ as the sole Mediator and Redeemer.”

The Note provides an excellent source and explanation of Mary’s role in Salvation History, as a true cooperator in God’s plan. It also has the approval of Pope Leo XIV. “[T]he faithful People of God do not distance themselves from Christ or the Gospel when they draw near to Mary,” but rather can see the love of our Creator in her face and through her tender caress—giving us strength, endurance, and fortitude that only faith in Jesus Christ provides.  

To Jesus Through Mary

What does this all mean for us, as everyday Christians? Marian devotion is a wonderful way to express our worship in the Divine Majesty of her son, Our Lord Jesus Christ. Just as it is sometimes easier to approach a friend, or colleague who is “tight” with the boss, so too we can talk with Mary about our own concerns, fears, or prayers.  

Some useful resources to get started include:

·         The God Minute’s Marian Saturday series on YouTube

·         Saying the Rosary – if you need help getting started, try these guided sessions

·         Visit a Marian shrine or church named in honor of Mary

·         View these webpages that discuss Mary: Popular Marian Devotions (Catholic News Agency), Devotion to Mary (Marians of the Immaculate Conception), and Marian Devotions Questions (EWTN)

·         Read the Marian Devotions Booklet from the Archdiocese of Portland

·         Find and read The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander, a 1944 classic on the humanity of Mary

·         Read St. Louis de Montfort’s timeless spiritual volume, True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin,  (True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin), sometimes called “True Consecration”

 Let us pray that Mary will recognize us as faithful followers of her son and enable us to be open to the will of His Lordship.

Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and forever.

Amen.


Saint Bonaventure's Prayer to the Virgin Mary

O most holy Virgin, Mother of our Lord Jesus Christ,
by the overwhelming grief you experienced
when you witnessed the martyrdom,
the crucifixion, and the death of your divine Son,
look upon me with eyes of compassion,
and awaken in my heart a tender
commiseration for those sufferings,
as well as a sincere detestation
of my sins, in order that,
being disengaged from all undue affection
for the passing joys of this earth,
I may sigh after the eternal Jerusalem,
and that henceforward all my thoughts
and all my actions may be directed
towards this one most desirable object:
Honor, glory, and love to our divine Lord Jesus,
and to the holy and immaculate Mother of God. Amen.

Top Photo: Author. From a Church in Buenos Aires, Argentina.

Bottom Photo: Gentile da Fabriano (Italian, about 1370 - 1427) Coronation of the Virgin, about 1420 Tempera and gold leaf on panel, 93 × 64.1 cm (36 5/8 × 25 1/4 in.) The J. Paul Getty Museum, Los Angeles, 77.PB.92 

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